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Visualize what you want
First of all, you have to visualize what you want. The dreams that everybody has. Including yours. Unfortunately most people leave them as dreams. The second thing you're going to have to do is see yourself in your dream environment and see yourself getting there. I can, I will, and when I'm the stuff you have to say, rather than the negative version I can't, I won't, and if I can! Don't worry if you fall into a more negative category – the good thing about your attitude is that you can learn and train yourself to have a positive one, given some time and practice.You've told yourself that this is going to happen, and now you have to talk about it by doing this, making yourself accountable and putting yourself under a little pressure to make it happen! If you're dreaming of being on Millionaire Street and you're in debt right now – you have to realize that this dream isn't going to happen overnight, maybe it's going to take a couple of years – you 're not going to say you're going to be a millionaire next Thursday afternoon in three weeks! Don't set unrealistic targets otherwise you may be under undue stress and pressure to achieve, which may be detrimental to your cause.
Attitude isn’t everything
Attitude isn't everything – it's just the first thing! Remember, it's going to be action that actually gets you there, and the attitude is going to determine what pace that's going to be. You are the architect, the builder, and the benefactor of all your life's work. So when something doesn't go your way, the first place to look is inward. You have to ask yourself what you could have done differently in order to have a more favorable result, after this inward analysis is done, you have to look at some of the external issues that might have been friends, too.Everyone has their fear
I am not talking about things like being scared of dark or scary lookings animals (spiders maybe ?) etc. For example, I am speaking about fears related to success, which you have not yet learned to do, and you fear that it will fail. Remember that if you don't try, you fail anyway, and if you fail at times, then success is much sweeter because you had to overcome obstacles in order to get to the end result.To summarise, we are going to use something interesting to illustrate a point. There are 26 letters in the alphabet, A = 1 and Z = 26 working on that basis, each letter of the word attitude is assigned a number and add them up to:
A(1) + T(20) + T(20) + I(9) + T(20) + U(21) + D(4) + E(5) = 100 - 100% Attitude!
Having a positive or optimistic attitude helps you achieve more than a negative or pessimistic one for yourself. Visualize what you want, take action to make it happen, overcome any fears and keep plugging away, remember that tree you see in your local park hasn't been getting that big overnight. You can learn to train your mind, and you'll learn how to develop and maintain a positive attitude over time.
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