Learn to Solve Your Problems, Do Not Run Away From Them!

Learn to Solve Your Problems, Do Not Run Away From Them!

Table Of Contents

1. What is Wrong With Us?
2. Four Steps to Solve Your Problems

What is Wrong With Us?

How much percentage in a class of 30 students would agree that mathematics is a great subject? You might be able to answer "about 10 to 35%" and that's all. True, most children today are not thrilled to solve mathematical equations, not because they do not know the processes involved, but because of a lack of interest in them.

Similarly, our day-to-day activities do not mean 100% joy and 0% trouble. At times, we have more problems than pleasure. Luckily, some individuals have the right skills in handling problems. Do you want to know their secrets?

Well, the careless people, as some might call them, have one thing in common: optimism. These kinds of people don't mean they've never had problems before. Try to remember a colleague, a relative, a friend, or someone from your community who has the brightest smile at the beginning of the day until the end of the day. How many times have you seen that person frown? Carefree people are fun to be with because they have a contagious attitude. Have you ever tried to ask them how they can lightly carry their problems? Below are the secrets:

1. Learn how to manage your emotions by distinguishing positive thoughts from negative feelings. That is the first step in problem solving. You can only start to solve your problems properly after you have cleared your mind with needless thought.


2. Treat every problem as a challenge and opportunity for self-improvement.


3. Free that mentality of the scapegoat. Do you point your finger or accuse someone for mishaps? Take responsibility for your mistakes. Nobody is perfect, so don't just put the blame on others.


4. Use a pen and paper to measure the depth of the problem and possible answers to your problem. The principle of probability law will enable you to assess how far you've thought of solving your problems.


5. Keep a journal and treat it as a "secret friend" who is always willing to hear your grievances. Write your feelings out freely.


6. Develop a notable hobby, which will help you in your life to lessen or minimize stress.


7. Take time off work and create a change in your daily schedule. Relax and check out some of the best movies in town. Travel and meet some wonderful new people. In the long run, you will find these activities worthwhile.

4 Steps to Solve Your Problems

The tips above will help you to optimize your positive feelings. Say you've already been consumed by a few problems. Here are the 1-2-3-4 steps to solve your problem:

1. Identify the root cause of the problem. If you think it's hard, ask a hundred of why and what's wrong, and you'll soon find out the cause.


2. Think about it, strategize, and act for resolution.


3. Develop a strong desire to resolve the problem.


4. Review the situation so that you do not repeat the same mistakes that were committed beforehand.

Consider that everyone has a lot of experience of lowliness, but problems are problems. They 're not there to annoy you; but it creates problems when you can't accept your limitations. Once you accept your limitations, problem solving is only a step 1-2-3, hassle-free, and indeed a life-sharpening experience. Thus, when a problem strikes, never consume or lock yourself in your room. Think problems are state of being limited to something you most need. But if you can't possess this important thing, accept it. Let go and you're going to free yourself from worries. Keep in mind that less worry means less trouble. If you believe you really want some time out because of problems, consider that there is another room called"improvement" for you.